Generational Segregation
A few years ago, I was having lunch with a
friend in a well-known restaurant. I looked around and noticed that we
were the youngest people there. The next day I was having lunch with
another friend in another restaurant and realized that we were the
oldest people at that place. I hadn't realized until that week how
segregated by age our lives have become.
A few generations ago, in a more agrarian
and less specialized society, generations often worked together in the
fields or in the shops. Young people learned from their elders and older
people benefited from the enthusiasm and energy of younger people.
Today older people are often unwilling or unable to share their years of
wisdom, and all too often younger people do not seek it out, or
discount the idea that they may have much to share.
Since I have become aware of this situation,
I have made a concerted effort not become one of the "old-gray-beards"
that sit around and complain about everything. I started reading books
written by younger authors and subscribed to magazines that are clearly
aimed at millennials.
We later changed churches to a congregation
with attendees with an average age at least twenty-five years younger
than our previous church. This means making friends and developing
strong relationships with people much younger than we are is far easier
than before.
This has been extremely encouraging.The
generation of people born between 1978 and 1998 are some of the best
yet. Not only are they comfortable with technology (it is normal to them
and not novel like it is to me), but they are highly energetic and
capable leaders. They value relationships and see kindness as important
in all areas of life.
There is great value in maintaining
long-term relationships with friends and co-workers, and family we have
enjoyed for many years.There is, however, a need to recognize the value
in crossing age barriers that our culture wants to build around us to
experience life at its best, with all age groups represented for all
that they can add to our life.
I just want to live long enough to see what happens next.
Jim Mathis